Have you reached a point where it really stings when someone asks, ‘How come you’re still single?’ or ‘How someone like you is still not married?’ If you’ve reached a point where being with someone matters more than being the hottest person in the room, then it’s time you find out the root cause of your singledom.
Listen up fellas, there is a huge difference between the guys who get girls on a consistent basis and the one’s who just can’t seem to get attention from the opposite sex no matter how hard they try.
If your love life is on the skids, it’s safe to assume that you are probably guilty of one of these blunders.
You’re too needy
If you want to run a woman off quickly, one of the best ways to do it is to be overly needy, i.e., excessively calling, emailing or sending text messages early in a relationship, always being available and doing everything she wants. Furthermore, women are not attracted to the type of man who needs too much support, validation, and constant reinforcement.
You don’t know how to build attraction
Many men fail in this area because they don’t know how to talk to women in a way that makes them more interested as time goes on. You need to learn the trigger points in women, i.e., how they think, react, and speak. You also have to know how to project your best qualities and use these to build attraction.
You’re looking in the wrong places
Trying to meet women in bars and clubs is a waste of time! Many women do not like meeting men at bars and have a natural resistance to men who approach them in these settings. Some of the best places to meet single women are shopping centers, shops, concerts and gyms. Women KNOW that guys who are in bars and clubs are looking for one-night stands, but they don’t expect to be hit on in the above scenarios (element of surprise).
You don’t have confidence
Women are attracted to men with self-confidence, period. Nobody wants a guy who acts unsure of himself. A sexually confident man who is secure about his sexuality and is comfortable being who he is will always attract more women.
You’re not persistent
Second to not even trying, giving up too early is the most common mistake guys make. You may need to get rejected a few dozen times before you come across a girl that likes you. Remember, meeting women is about numbers, so continue to go out and meet as many women as possible to improve your chances.
Unreal expectations
If you think your prince charming is going to come riding on a white horse and sweep you off your feet, then you need a rethink! Whether you’re past marriageable age or not, having unreal expectations will only bring disappointment. A man who looks like Hrithik Roshan and has the same IQ as Einstein’s happens only in the movies.
You cannot compromise
If you’ve been in a few relationships but for some reasons it didn’t work out, it could be because you have difficulty in compromising (or you’re gay – kidding). You have to make little sacrifices in order to keep your partner happy. It could be anything from cutting down on smoking, learning to cook, or cutting down on socialising with the opposite sex, etc.
If you’ve been in a few relationships but for some reasons it didn’t work out, it could be because you have difficulty in compromising (or you’re gay – kidding). You have to make little sacrifices in order to keep your partner happy. It could be anything from cutting down on smoking, learning to cook, or cutting down on socialising with the opposite sex, etc.
You have commitment/ ex issues
You cannot commit, period. It could be ‘cos you’re way too independent and you like space’ or because ‘you’ve seen too many marriages fall apart’ or ‘you’re still not over ex.’ Whatever the reason, you need to get over it. Unless you resolve your commitment issues you’ll find a hard time finding a long term relationship.
You cannot commit, period. It could be ‘cos you’re way too independent and you like space’ or because ‘you’ve seen too many marriages fall apart’ or ‘you’re still not over ex.’ Whatever the reason, you need to get over it. Unless you resolve your commitment issues you’ll find a hard time finding a long term relationship.
You are a workaholic
One of the other reasons you’re still single is because you’re addicted to work. Make it, married to work. You work 12 hours a day and even on weekends you’re glued to your iPhone and laptop. Wake up and smell the coffee. You won’t even get laid with this attitude, let alone finding a life partner. You need to start making room for social life – and no, not online – in real life.
One of the other reasons you’re still single is because you’re addicted to work. Make it, married to work. You work 12 hours a day and even on weekends you’re glued to your iPhone and laptop. Wake up and smell the coffee. You won’t even get laid with this attitude, let alone finding a life partner. You need to start making room for social life – and no, not online – in real life.
You have bad habits
May be you drink too much, or you have a tendency to swear a lot. Even having too much of an attitude or pride is a vice and same goes with being stingy. See which habit of yours is a turn off. Check with your close friends or family members to get an honest answer.
May be you drink too much, or you have a tendency to swear a lot. Even having too much of an attitude or pride is a vice and same goes with being stingy. See which habit of yours is a turn off. Check with your close friends or family members to get an honest answer.
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