You see someone who is just coming out from a horrible relationship and you are quick to offer a shoulder for them to cry on.
You are happy; they are now "SINGLE".
Perhaps you've been
'eyeing' them for a while, and here is your chance to make a move...Which is not bad.
But don't be the "SAVIOUR" to them.
'eyeing' them for a while, and here is your chance to make a move...Which is not bad.
But don't be the "SAVIOUR" to them.
Many people have entered the wrong relationship from offering a shoulder to cry on to being the
one who is cheated on. You find yourself entangled in this web of mess all in the name of helping them to heal from their broken relationship. They may have broken up with that lady/man but may not be detached completely.
Ladies, while you may think that he is now a 'free' man. His heart may not be completely free. I know you have high hopes and after all maybe God is just answering your prayers as you have been waiting for your 'Mr Right'. When you see him, please DON'T touch them. Point him in the way of healing first. Be a friend and don't
try anything closer than that (for now). It is IMPORTANT for them to heal before they enter another relationship. Otherwise, you will be telling 'stories that touch'.
Guys, same goes for you. Many women are married but their hearts are not in there. Their heart still longs for that boyfriend who has caused them so much grief: the ones who left them to marry someone else. The one who
broke their trust in any man at all. *Oga, you are also at risk. That woman may accept your proposal for a relationship/marriage, but might not be fully committed and her heart might not be with you. Don't come and think you will sweep her off her feet with your sweet tongue, constant communication and flowers. Just STOP. Point her too in the way of healing.
To become whole from all that emotional damage and disappointment they need to turn to God to receive approval and healing.
one who is cheated on. You find yourself entangled in this web of mess all in the name of helping them to heal from their broken relationship. They may have broken up with that lady/man but may not be detached completely.
Ladies, while you may think that he is now a 'free' man. His heart may not be completely free. I know you have high hopes and after all maybe God is just answering your prayers as you have been waiting for your 'Mr Right'. When you see him, please DON'T touch them. Point him in the way of healing first. Be a friend and don't
try anything closer than that (for now). It is IMPORTANT for them to heal before they enter another relationship. Otherwise, you will be telling 'stories that touch'.
Guys, same goes for you. Many women are married but their hearts are not in there. Their heart still longs for that boyfriend who has caused them so much grief: the ones who left them to marry someone else. The one who
broke their trust in any man at all. *Oga, you are also at risk. That woman may accept your proposal for a relationship/marriage, but might not be fully committed and her heart might not be with you. Don't come and think you will sweep her off her feet with your sweet tongue, constant communication and flowers. Just STOP. Point her too in the way of healing.
To become whole from all that emotional damage and disappointment they need to turn to God to receive approval and healing.
Before you make that move, be sure to see that your prospective candidate has healed completely. People who have been hurt only tend to hurt other people.
*Oga - is an ambiguous word could be used as a big man, rich or wealthy man, boss, used to indicate gender or Mr. Man.
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