The world is changing. And so are people. They create rules to break them later on. Is it bad or good? We do not know for sure.
That’s just the way it is and there isn’t much we can do to change the situation. There are a lot of countries where following traditions is one of the most important things, while other cultures are not too strict about their customs and are more open-minded. In the list below you can find 7 principles that are found old-fashioned by modern married couples.
1. Keep things exciting...
Married people know how important it is to refresh relationship now and then. Being intriguing in your partner’s eyes is essential if you want your marriage last long. There is no need to invent new things every single day. But making your life more exciting by trying out something new is wise. We cannot avoid routine but it’s up to us to make it less boring and tiresome.
Married people know how important it is to refresh relationship now and then. Being intriguing in your partner’s eyes is essential if you want your marriage last long. There is no need to invent new things every single day. But making your life more exciting by trying out something new is wise. We cannot avoid routine but it’s up to us to make it less boring and tiresome.
2. Fights lead to divorce
Different issues may arise. What happens next? People argue and fight. This in turn might lead to divorce. But is it really the only way to live? There is not a single problem that cannot be resolved if it is dealt with by 2 intelligent people. Divorce is not an option. Just try and talk with your spouse, offer your solution and learn to be a good listener. We tend to speak too much and listen too little.
Different issues may arise. What happens next? People argue and fight. This in turn might lead to divorce. But is it really the only way to live? There is not a single problem that cannot be resolved if it is dealt with by 2 intelligent people. Divorce is not an option. Just try and talk with your spouse, offer your solution and learn to be a good listener. We tend to speak too much and listen too little.
3. Vacation together
Spending vacation in different places is a very healthy thing to do. No matter how much you love each other both of you need a break. A weekend away from your spouse is not a betrayal. You are just taking some time out. It is quite natural that each of us should have their own private time and space. Usually couples who practice this say that after separate vacation their relationships get even better.
Spending vacation in different places is a very healthy thing to do. No matter how much you love each other both of you need a break. A weekend away from your spouse is not a betrayal. You are just taking some time out. It is quite natural that each of us should have their own private time and space. Usually couples who practice this say that after separate vacation their relationships get even better.
4. Mutual hobbies
Being interested in the same things and having the same hobbies is cool yet not a must. Your areas of interests may vary. It’s even more exciting because you can always find out something more about your partner or show your inner self from a different angle. If you feel that your spouse does not want to be involved in your hobby, do not force it on them.
Being interested in the same things and having the same hobbies is cool yet not a must. Your areas of interests may vary. It’s even more exciting because you can always find out something more about your partner or show your inner self from a different angle. If you feel that your spouse does not want to be involved in your hobby, do not force it on them.
5. Don’t go to bed angry
Stay positive and do all possible to go to bed with constructive thinking. Destructive mind affects your own health and ruins relationship with your spouse. In the evening stress tends to accumulate, but there are plenty of ways how to reduce tension. Listen to calm music, read a book, or just watch a comedy.
Stay positive and do all possible to go to bed with constructive thinking. Destructive mind affects your own health and ruins relationship with your spouse. In the evening stress tends to accumulate, but there are plenty of ways how to reduce tension. Listen to calm music, read a book, or just watch a comedy.
6. Always sleep together
Sleeping in separate beds or even rooms is not a big deal. This does not mean that the partners do not love each other any longer. There are quite a few reasons why people might want to sleep separately. There are advantages in it as well – there is no one snoring or moving in the same bed with you, which means you can have much better sleep.
Sleeping in separate beds or even rooms is not a big deal. This does not mean that the partners do not love each other any longer. There are quite a few reasons why people might want to sleep separately. There are advantages in it as well – there is no one snoring or moving in the same bed with you, which means you can have much better sleep.
7. The honesty vow
Honesty is the best policy. This is the rule to follow when we are talking about something substantial. White lies are sometimes healthy. Let us not be too serious about small things that do not influence anything significant. For example, why not be tolerant and let him wear his favorite tie that you find ugly? Do not keep telling him how terrible it looks on him even if that’s true. However, avoid lying if the case is really serious.
Honesty is the best policy. This is the rule to follow when we are talking about something substantial. White lies are sometimes healthy. Let us not be too serious about small things that do not influence anything significant. For example, why not be tolerant and let him wear his favorite tie that you find ugly? Do not keep telling him how terrible it looks on him even if that’s true. However, avoid lying if the case is really serious.
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